Lessons in Choring

Part of our time off yesterday involved getting out in the fresh air and flexing our muscles. The ones in our arms and the ones in our heads.

It was a bit chilly out there!

I love seeing all the lessons in reading and math and physics my kids pick up while we’re out there. (Science and biology are just sort of a given.)

We talked about how and why ice forms in water when it’s cold. And how ice displaces water so you have to strategically fill the buckets in the winter to maintain a supply of consumable water when the hoses are frozen.

We moved the sheep, so we had to move the water trough for them.

We talked about volume how many gallons it takes to fill the water buckets and how we calculate how much the animals are drinking based on gallons divided by number of sheep.

The kids discovered that you can't roll an oval in a straight line...

We counted noses and calculated how much feed per head, then how much feed per bag, and then how many bags per day. I was impressed with the Cowboy’s grasp of the math–but that might be because he feeds with me every day and sees how many bags we use each day.

It just goes around in a circle back to the beginning point...

I’m not sure how much of the calculating Speedracer really grasps, but he’s learned enough to count noses and count scoops with us. I think the biggest thing is to show them that what they’re learning is important and applicable to everyday life.

Even with two people pushing.

There’s also a great element of hands-on problem-solving. The Ladybug and the Cowboy tried rolling that water trough in a pointless circle a good three or four times before they gave up and tried another way. That kind of experience of getting the job done with diligence, but being open-minded to new methods in the process is just priceless.

They had to modify their strategy.

They did end up completely stumped trying to figure out how to man-handle it over the fence. (Last time they did this, the bucket was only half the size of this one.) They didn’t quite have enough muscle to heave it over the cross bar and modify the angle in mid-push to clear that last couple inches of fence wire. I swing it over for them so they could keep going.

The hose brigade.

The Ladybug also had to read the feed bags to know which was for the sheep/cows and which was for our horse. She struggles with reading and I’ve noticed that having “real” reading to do seems to encourage and motivate her a lot more. She’s very excited about some cooking projects we have coming up and I think reading the cookbook is going to be a big help for her.

I can't get over how competent and grown up my girl is sometimes.

The Cowboy’s always been my big helper, but I’ve seen some marked improvement with Speedracer lately too. I don’t know if it’s just that he’s finally maturing a little bit, or if we’re finally drilling it into him that he has to help out. But he helped unload groceries the other day (and I mean more than just dragging one loaf of bread along while howling that it’s too heavy) , and has been feeding the dog and cat without fussing lately.

It’s been a great encouragement to me. When they’re fussing and fighting about their chores I start to worry that we’re expecting to much from them. When they work well and don’t fuss, I feel like we’re on the right track.

Do you worry sometimes that you’re asking too much of your kids with their chores and expectations? This is constantly on my mind. I don’t want them to go sour on working diligently.

 


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Lessons in Choring — 5 Comments

  1. Farm life is a wonderful experience for kids. It teaches so much responsibility and character. When they fuss about their chores (mine do too) I have to keep in mind that we don’t always want to do our chores either. We have just grown in wisdom to know that we MUST…they will too. They are learning to do a task through trial and error. They figured it out!

    • Isn’t that true! Sometimes I don’t feel like doing it either! I guess that gets back to the “training” part of raising children. You don’t just teach them how, you have to train them to do it, usually over and over again until they get it. Thanks for the encouragement–I’m glad to know it’s not all in vain!

  2. I think you are doing great :) We are still trying to get the basics of picking up toys with Sophie – she just can’t seem to grasp that one!!

    Love the picks – sure wish you lived a bit closer!

    • My littlest one is definitely struggling with it the most. The Ladybug is messy, but she understands that she has to clean up when she’s told to and doesn’t fuss to much (as long as it hasn’t gotten so bad she’s totally overwhelmed). But Speedracer? Sometimes it’s a fuss to get him to do ANYTHING.

      And I love blogging BECAUSE it forces me to take pictures–and then actually look at them and think about them and appreciate everything they represent to me.

  3. Hey it’s Holly from Tucker’s Homestead Blessings! I love the title of your blog! I grew up on a small farm in the middle of cotton fields. We had 2 cotton gins within 5 miles from our house! I love the farm life and look foward to growing our own with the hubby! Farm life absolutely teaches some of the best character, responsibilty, and values that can be taught! Enjoyed reading through your blog! Thanks for stopping by the other day :)

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