Surviving Day Camp
Our wonderful summer babysitter is on vacation this week, so we enrolled the kiddos in summer day camp at the local YMCA for the week. We didn’t have a lot of options, and they run their program week by week so we could sign them up just for this week and the week in July that we’ll need coverage while our sitter is at camp herself. And hey, camp is fun, right?

These have nothing to do with my post, I just thought they were great pictures of the Ladybug and her Daddy working on a project last Sunday.
The first day I picked them up–not knowing what to expect–Speedracer saw me, picked up his stuff while I was signing him out, and walked straight past me to stand at the door and wait. Fingers in mouth, silent. I reminded me of his first week of school last Fall. The Counselor told me that he’d had a rough day, but it’s just an adjustment for him, they understand it’s his first time at camp.
Oh yeah, and he peed his pants, but it was only in his swimsuit, so he’s fine.
Oh yeah, and he brought the entire building to a screeching halt after swim time when he lost his sock and refused to leave the dressing room, or put his shoes back on, without it.
They never found it, but he eventually caved in when another mother in the dressing room gave him a sock from their bag. {Umm…I swear there were extra socks with the change of clothes in both his and the Cowboy’s backpacks, but nevermind.}

They made us a chalkboard paint sign for farm events, like sheep shearing day.
Ok, so it was the first day. No harm, no foul. (The mother behind me had to sign papers over the incident reports filed for her kids so I thought I was in pretty good shape.}
Then the Cowboy walks up to me and says, “Hi Momma. I lost my underwear.”
Wow–Ok. Glad I packed that change of clothes over someone’s vehement protests that he’s a “big boy.”
As of this morning, we have lost a sock, a pair of underwear, a swim shirt, a beach towel, and a reusable water bottle.
We’ve had a bloody nose (the Cowboy), a snack thief (one of the Ladybug’s new little friends), and a pool time out for too much splashing (Speedracer).
We’ve argued each morning about wearing tennis shoes (rather than boots) and shorts (rather than jeans) and using our regular lunch boxes instead of “just a paper bag like the other kids.” {Which is not true, by the way. I totally annoyed the Ladybug the next morning by pointing out all the regular lunch boxes…}
It turns out the YMCA program doesn’t do naps for the 4 and 5-year-old class. The Ladybug and the Cowboy are tired at the end of the day, but poor Speedracer is just a limp noodle by the time I pick them up. He put himself to bed the other night at 7:30.
I spoke with one of the Counselors yesterday and she said they have “down time” after swim time, and he’s welcome to take a nap if he wants too. Um, yeah, my 4-year-old boy is going to volunteer to take a nap while everyone else is playing–sure.
I mentioned it to him and he told me that “YMCA kids don’t do naps!”
But I have to admit–even as bleary-eyed exhausted as they are at the end of every day, they want to go back the next morning.
I also have to admit–I hate this arrangement. I can’t wait to get back to the peace and simplicity of our routine from last week. I’m exhausted by the grouchy attitudes at the end of the day and the tired bickering in the mornings. I’m exhausted by the extra laundry every day. And the extra packing every morning.
And I am exhausted by the vigilance necessary to understand their day in a completely new (to all of us!) environment and explain, direct, suggest, correct, and guide their perceptions of all these new things going on. The music they’re hearing, the clothes they’re seeing, the new ways of praying before meals…all these things that we, as intentional parents, need to help them filter.
Oh how quickly we all got out of our school day routine! I guess it’s a growing experience for all of us…
Wesley is in Y camp for his second summer, but it’s a brand new camp facility. They tell you to label EVERYTHING with your child’s name so you don’t end up at the Lost and Found table sorting through socks and underwear that look alike. I buy stickers for clothing from Stuck on You. I find camp to be frustrating too because the staff doesn’t communicate well – case in point – they held an orientation and handed out lots of info, forms that needed to be signed, etc., but did I get the post card in the mail informing me of this event? Nope. They probably hate to see me coming because I always have questions – like why isn’t my child getting his swimming lesson when I paid for him to have one? Since it’s more of an outdoor camp this year, I also have the added worries of bug bites and ticks and sunburn and overheating.
The way that you summed up that last paragraph about helping your kids understand some of the new things they are experiencing really brings back memories of complete exhaustion. It seems like every time we turn around we have to try to make our kids understand that though othe people are doing or acting a certain way, we don’t and “this” is why… Wow! Even as teenagers we still go through that some. I seriously DISLIKE anything that is out of routine. 🙂
I hear you. Getting out of the school routine made me so grouchy for a week. My son has done 2 camps now (just morning) and then he has two more, later this summer. They’re good but they can be exhausting in themselves!
oh my – I totally get this! We had Sophie in summer camp for 2 weeks and I was so glad when it was over. It was nice to get back into our routine!